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Well, we have all seen that myth - that "nice guys" lose out and the 'bad boys" appeal to women - but I don't think it is necessarily true. At least I don't believe it has anything to do with being a bad boy versus a nice guy.

I believe there are other personality vectors involved that possibly bad boys and nice guys have that are the establishing qualities of attraction.

Bad boys are often less shy, but at the same time they are more confident in general than nice guys. I believe that it would be these qualities that are attracting a woman not the aspect that a guy is bad.

I personally almost never use the "bad boy" technique when attracting women, I am most always a perfect gentleman. But, I am not an easy hook and women can tell that immediately when talking to me. I am a little unapproachable, I don't compliment women when I first meet them or tell them how attractive they are, and most women don't have a clue as to whether I am fascinated with them or just being nice.

That is what sets me beyond a "nice guy". Women see me as a good gentleman but haven't a clue if I am interested in them or not. Women -especially very attractive women - like that. They are sick and tired of talking to men who fawn all over them.

Girls like guys who are alluring and unique. Attractive girls don't find guys who tell them how beautiful they are to be special. But a guy who has a pleasant conversation with them without stating a word about their good looks verbally or non-verbally - now that is both attractive and unique to a beautiful girl.

Also keep in mind that women have different characters. And what one thinks is interesting and unique changes from personality to personality. A not-so-good-looking lady may find it totally interesting and unique to be told how pretty she is by a man. A woman who grows up in a community of perfect gentlemen, might very well find a guy who talks a little bad and naughty to be interesting and special. A woman who knows nothing but rough and ignorant men, would find a gentlemen to be a rare interesting and unique find.

You see regardless of what you are like there is someone for you. But you have to identify who that someone would be and then try to maximize how you would meet persons like that. So no matter if you are a bad guy or a nice guy, put yourself in a state where you are interesting and special to the women you meet and you will be victorious.

One of the hardest things to learn in life is that irrespective of what you are like there is always someone who is perfectly suitable to you. Even if you are boring there are women who are completely compatible with that. Not every one likes to meet and hook up with the life of the celebration.

The problem is people who don't accept themselves for who they are, try and act differently and they are not being real, so they don't entice anyone. Now if you just accept yourself for who you are and act the way you actually are, you will find that there are people who will embrace you for who you are. So don't worry about whether you are unexciting or not, just be yourself. Sooner or later you will see a girl who will accept you for who you are.

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